Ms NEEMA EDWARD MKWELELE – BA (Hon.) [UK]05/01/1989-21/02/2011
We guess our healing will probably take longer than we thought i.e. far beyond our lives when we meet you again. Today it is one year since you left us unexpectedly in London.
We love you, you are still our daughter and sister to us, you are still with us; we remember your love, advice, charming and above all your intelligence.
Your dad (Mr. Edward Mkwelele), mom (Mrs. Bertha Mkwelele), brother (Mr. Michael Mkwelele), friends in Tanzania, United Kingdom, Kenya, Cyprus and Canada they are still remembering you, especially your social interaction.
We miss you and we will miss you forever. We thank God for those 22 years he gave us for having NEEMA. We have fond memories of you; we don’t believe that you have gone!
But, loved ones never die; they live in our hearts forever - Amen
REST IN GODS TRUSTFUL HANDS, MAY GOD CONTINUE TO COMFORT YOUR FAMILY
ReplyDeleteSiamini Neema mdogo wangu hatupo pamoja tena, sasa hivi ndio najua habari hii ya msiba.Mr&Mrs Mkwelele na Michael. poleni sana. RIP Neema.
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Neema mdogo wangu mungu ailaze roho yako mahali pema peponi it pain, I miss you
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Huyu mtoto simjui lakini ameniuma sana. kalikuwa kachanga tu jamani. Mungu muondolee shida zakaburi na umpokee katika ufalme wako.
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ReplyDeletepoleni sana jamani huyu mtoto ni mchanga tu,mimi niko uk lakini sikupata hizi habari kwani aliugua au ni ghafla? mtoto mdogo jaani mwe,mungu akupumzishe,Amen
ReplyDeleteThank you all, to be honest the pain we are enduring is unbearable, it has been said that there is no loss as devastating as the loss of a child, regardless of your age or the age of the child, I have seen a 109 mom crying for the death of her son aged 78.
ReplyDeleteThe sudden death is a mix-up of everything we know to be true in life. Losing a child to a sudden death is a break in the natural law and order of life as we expected her to outlive us, we expected to see her marriage ceremony, to see our grandchildren, but now no longer that is the case totally devastated and utterly shuttered .
The child we have spent our time and all resources loving and caring for, giving our all to and planning to watch her well into adulthood has been taken and shuttered. It is a heartbreaking event like no other.
The pain we feel is unexplainable. Those who live through and survive such this ordeal without becoming bitter have the strongest, most loving souls of all people walking the planet.
In her book titled SURVING GRIEF, Dr. Catherine M. Sanders writes, I quote, “ The reason parental grief is so different from other losses has to do with excess, because the loss of a child is such an unthinkable loss, everything is intensified, exaggerated, and lengthened,” the end of quote.
Guilt and anger are almost always present in every significant loss, but these emotions are inordinate with grieving parents. Experts estimate that it takes anywhere from three to five years to reach renewal after a spouse dies, but parental grief (loss of a child) might go on for ten to twenty years or maybe a lifetime. Our lives are severely altered when our daughter died and there can be no replacement.
Substitutes offer little respite. This is not to say that there is no hope for happiness. It is just that the shock we are in and severity of this kind of loss leaves us feeling completely helpless and full of dark despair with blink future.
What we miss is happiness and our cocooned set of family. She (NEEMA) was fantastic with a big golden heart of humanity.
We thank again you all and this blog or ours "BLOG YA JAMII" Mzee Michuzi ASANTE for everything you did for us during our hard time we ever had in our life. Our Almighty God is great and absolutely loves all of us and has his plan for everything happening on earth, we are his property and we have to put our lives in his hands he knows what he has in his store for us all, stay blessed and look after each other life is not permanent and has meaning to us all that is why he brought us here on earth for a specific period of time. Most important is love without reservation – Amen.
From: Edward Alex Mkwelele- daddy, Bertha Mkwelele- mummy and Michael Mkwelele - young brother.
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RIP Neema.
I work in the International Office at Falmouth. I worked with Neema when she came to Falmouth. She was a wonderful person who received one of very few scholarships as an outstanding student. I also worked with her to set up the study abroad in Canada, where Neema again made a big impression. I am so sorry to hear of her passing and the loss to you, her family, and the wider world of such a beautiful and talented person. My sincere and heartfelt condolences.
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