Mara nyingine mtu akiishi maisha ya kujali familia unaambiwa amelishwa Limbwata aidha na Ndugu au Marafiki. Consider the following, LIMBWATA facts
A) If LIMBWATA is to allow your wife to be a partner and participant informulating the family budget, then I support it, becoz women are wiser spenders than men.
B) If LIMBWATA means that the family money is used by Mama Watoto topurchase stuff at Kariakoo rather than being drunk by the husband atRIVERSIDE or GAZA ONE then I support that men are affected by LIMBWATAz
C) If a LIMBWATAz husband is the one who won't spend ALL the monthly salary with NYUMBA NDOGO or at KITIMOTO Bar (while his KIDS starve) then HONGERA to all LIMBWATAz husbands.
E) If LIMBWATA means that a MUME spends quality time with his MKE and WATOTO, instead of engaging in dubious investments where he is CONNED then; "Watu Walishwe LIMBWATA forever".
f) If LIMBWATA means that when MKEO is SICK you help her with work,that when she is over burdened you extend a helping hand then LONG LIVE LIMBWATAz.
G) If LIMBWATA means that you DON'T BEAT UP your wife, that you seekassistance from your wife for they are called helpers when you have tried all the altanertives in vain, then LIMBWATAz LIDUMU MAISHA .
H) If LIMBWATA means that you treat your wife as a human being, that you are polite, don't bark at her like a dog, DONT growl at her like a hyena, consider that after work she is as stressed as you are then VIVA LIMBWATAz.
I) If LIMBWATA means that you are at home after work, and that your wife and kids are your next of KIN then HONGERA WALE WOTE WALILISHWA LIMBWATA.
Na ukae hivyo hivyo kaka!
KAMA UMELISHWA LIMBWATA, WEWE NI BINGWA!!
Tell your WIFE to add More LIMBWATANa Mdau wa www.spotistarehe.wordpress.com
Hilo sio Limbwata , labda ni Libata, manake tumewaona waliolishwa libwata wanavyokuwa, bwegebwege, hata kazi ofisini wanashindwa kufanya kwa kumfikiria mkewe...
ReplyDeleteMichuzi kila inapofika ijumaa jioni huwa unapost mambo serious na breaking news za quality au ndio genda ugaluke na kadhalika (kaligo ligo na shuntama) zinafanya kazi.
ReplyDeleteSHESHE HILI SASA HASWA KWA MAWIFI NA MABROTHER TEGEMEZI.PINDI KAKA ANAPOKUWA BENETI NA MAWAIFUU WAKE,LAKINI KUNA LILE LIMBWATA LA KUSHIKIWA AKILI WEWE KILA KITU MPAKA MKE ASEME ILI KWANGU GUMU SANA KWANI TUNASHINDWA KUWA NA MAAMUZI KAMA VIDUME VYA SHOKA INGAWA NJE WABABE LAKINI UKIFIKA KWA MAWAIFUU UNAFUNGA MDOMA.
ReplyDeleteHakika, idumu limbwata ya kumfanya mwanaume aendelee kufua nepi za mtoto wakati mkewe anakata kilaji na 'shemejize' baa
ReplyDeleteIdumu limbwata ya kumfanya mume arudi mapema nyumbani, akichelewa aombe msamaha lakini mkewe aje muda atakao kwa kuwa wanawake ni wiser in spending that men are.
Idumu limbwata ya baraza ya nyumba likichafuka wajapo wageni mama amkoromee mumewe mbele zao, na mume awe mpole siku zote kudumisha adabu ya ndoa. 'Baba Husna mbona hapa pachafu sana!!!! Embu leta fagio!!!'
Limbwatadi men hongereni kwa kutokula kitimoto bali kumpelekea mama fweza akajenge kwao na wewe KWENU NA MKEO mbakie na kibanda. (Hapa ifahamike mifano ipo, na sio kwamba mama anakuwa na juhudi za kutafuta, bali "za kutumia wisely."
Hongereni limbwatadi men kwa kutunza ndoa zenu! Eti, lidumu limbwata!
I'm not encouraging or supporting mfumo dume but utamaduni mzuri uenziwe pia. Idumu Limbwata. Mwenye masikio na asikie, na mwenye macho asome na aelewe. Idumu limbwata.
If limbwata means your husband loves you more, as much as you love him, LONG LIVE LIMBWATA.
ReplyDeleteLIMBWATA OYEE!
ReplyDeletehiyo ulolishwa ni sumu si limbwata. ua wewe mdau utakuwa mwanamke. kama dume basi wew kwisha. beijing wapi na wapi. we umwekee mkeo kiwingu useme eti mapenzi,# utaachika safari hii. kila mtu ana mkataba na mikataba yote ya ndoa haifanani.
ReplyDeleteExcellent points!!
ReplyDeleteWe must continue challenging status quo in relationships and in deed do what this guy is saying fellows.
Problem is, IF A POST LIKE THIS makes any man in a relationship rethink and probably forever change how he goes about helping and loving his lady and being there for his family BUT that woman happen to have tried to feed him some limbwata in the past, she probably will spend a lot more money with her mganga as her appreciation for THE WONDERFUL LIMBWATA she was provided - for that Limbwata will have finally worked and not what this dude read on Michuzi's blog. Even if all this start to happen over two years after she tried to change him thru Limbwata!.
That's how deep people are entrenched in madawas.
Ma man who posted this, expect a lot of unsolicited offers from the ladies for you are THE dream parter / husband for any woman -- if you live by these principles!!
I tried them all as a hubby and wasn't appreciated. But will do it again when I take a plunge into a marriage one more time. Pray for me!!!!
wewe mdau uliyetoa hiyo mada ukome na ukomae.kama wewe umelishwa limbwata ni wewe.unajua jinsi ulivyotayarishiwa hilo limbwata?kwa taarifa yako limbwata ni nyama inawekwa ukeni kwa muda wa mrefu hata zaidi ya mwezi.sasa sipati picha jinsi ulivyokula huo uozo(limbwata).limbwata(uozo) uendelee kula mwenyewe forever.
ReplyDeleteacha ujinga bwana.
namalizia limbwata(uozo) ni uchafu tu.
ahsante sana kwa mjadala wako ila umenichefua sana kwa kitenda chako cha kuchanganya lugha ya kiingereza na kiswahili..acha ulimbukeni mshamba wewe!!
ReplyDeleteAma kweli Bado wa TANZANIA wengi wamegubikwa na giza la upotofu wakati wezetu wanafanya safasi za kwenda mwezini na kutafuta maisha katika ulimwengu mwengine hapa kwetu ndio kwanza watu wamehalifilika na mambo ya kienyeji poleni endeleni hivyo hivyo kuna watu wa sehemu fulani hapa TANZANIA mika ya nyuma walikuwa Bisha kwa jambo ambalo binadamu waleo ikiwa atakubali basi atakuwa na upungufu kichwanijambo lenyewe walilokuwa wanabisha kundi moja lilikuwa linasema Mavi ya mvungu hufanywa sahani na kundi jengine linakataa hilo sasa ndio hawa watu na hilo swali la limbwata kitakuja kizazi na kuja kufikiria hawa watu walikuwa na mawazo gani
ReplyDeleteKWA UFUPI NDUGU WA MWANAUME NAO WATUMIE HAKILI KWANI KAMA HUKUTAKA MWANAO AU KAKA YAKO ALISHWE LIBWATA KWANINI USIMHASI KABISA AU MKAOWANA WENYEWE KWA WENYEWE ILI MSILISHWE LIBWATA???
ReplyDeleteBASI LIDUMU LIBWATA KAMA HAMTAWAHASI NDUGU ZENU KWANI KIPAPA CHA MTU BAKI KITAMU MPAKA KUMOYO NIKISEMA USITOKE NA HATATOKA USIWAPE CASH NA HATOTOA. NA NYIE MTABAKI LIBWATA LIBWATA MPAKA MTAZEEKA.
kusema kweli ndugu wamme wanamaudhi sana utakuta wanamtolea mwanaume shida utazani hana mke na kana kwamba mke yuko pale kwa ajili yao, akitia ngumu jibu ni libwata au anamuendesha mme wake hii tabia imezoeleka sana afrika mimi huwa nawaona mahayawani tu.
ReplyDeleteMaendeleo yanaletwa na maelewano kama hautamsikiliza mkeo maendeleo yako yatakuwa mashakani.
ReplyDeletemimi namsikiliza mke wangu kwani nikikwama mimi na yeye atakuwa amekwama ila ndugu zangu wananipendea hela zangu tu kama sina hela hawatanidhamini na hata marafiki ni wanafiki watupu.LIDUMU LIBWATA--LIDUMU!!!
Hongera kwa kufafanua, safi sana, cha kushangaza hao jamaa wanaosema limbwata wakienda nje ya nchi wakiona wanaume wenzao wamejaziwa 'limbwatas' nao taratibu wanabadilika, mi mwanzo wabongo wenzangu majuu walianza kuniletea za kuleta (limbwatas)eti naenda na toroli na wife supermarket, kumbe washamba wakutupa!!!
ReplyDeleteJingine kuna bendera kufuata upepo eti anatafuta nyumba ndogo bila sababu ili akikaa kijiweni ahadithie nae 'nina nyumba ndogo'
Mdau aliyechoshwa na 'limbwatas' na nyumba ndogo za kishamba
Haihusiani na stori. Lakini stori hii ni yakutia moyo endapo kweli u-Swisi imeamua kufanya hivyo:
ReplyDeleteSwitzerland breaks with tradition on tax evasion
(by BALZ BRUPPACHER, Associated Press Writer Balz Bruppacher, Associated Press Writer – Fri Mar 13, 11:31 am ET)
BERN, Switzerland – The Swiss government said Friday it would cooperate on cases of international tax evasion, breaking with a long-standing tradition of protecting wealthy foreigners accused of hiding billions of dollars in the Alpine nation.
Limbwata is a generic concept arising from the myths of superstition, matrimonial in/dependence and psychological failure. It is a reflection of the dubious belief that love and mutual respect do not or cannot exist. With its sexist stigma it implies that only a woman needs a man - although I have heard rare stories of limbwatised women. As such it is a social vice not much different from those which view dyslexics as outright stupid, disbaled as laughable, the glorification of fisadis and nyumba ndogos. Life is too short to embark on side issues which may impinge on one's rare and far between joyous moments. One of my colleagues up one floor has this slogan on his desk: One man, one life, one wife and one love. It can't get more sensible than that.
ReplyDeletemichuzi jaribu koboresha mitambo yako kidogo
ReplyDeleteI could not agree with you more. Power to you whoever you are.
ReplyDeleteJaneth
Limbwata sio lazima huende kwa mganga,bali ni mungu anapoweka upendo kati ya mume na mke, na maelewano.
ReplyDeleteHuyu mtoa mada amesikia tu neno limbwata lakini haelewi ni kitu gani. Soma Tarehe March 13, 2009 7:21 PM, Mtoa Maoni: Anonymous. Unashangilia mume kula nyama zilizoozeshwa ukeni? Unachekelea mtu kushindwa kujenga taifa kwa kuwazia mkewe muda wote? Hii ni aibu, nasikia kichefuchefu.
ReplyDeleteYote hayo yanatokana na mfumo dume ulioko Tanzania unaotokana na makabila na jamii mbalimbali ambazo hazimthamini mwanamke na kumuona kama ni mtumishi kwa mwanamme. Iwapo kila mmoja baada ya kuoana atazingatia majukumu yake kwa familia basi hakuta kuwa na kulishwa libwatwa wala nini.
ReplyDeletelakini kama libwata ni kumfanya mwanamume wa Ki-Tz azingatie majukumu yake nyumbani na kumjali mke na watoto wake, au kutokuwa na nyumba ndogo na kutumia muda mwingi katika familia yake, basi libwata hoyee!
Jirani Mdaku
oi camon guyz mume mmoja mwanakmke mmoja? it is imposible on this planet earth. fanya research yako vizuri. angalia divorce rate ya western world na cozi zake nini? compare na middle east or africa swatziland then utakuja na conclution kwamba waarabu na waafrica wali invent vitu vingi sana ie maandishi na mume mmja na wake wengi. hata clinton anajua hilo.hili lawezekana juu wanaume kwenye mambo ya mapenzi tuko phisical wakati wanawake ni emotional.
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