By Maya Angelou
A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall. They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!
A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall. They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!
When you make your mark , you will always attract some haters... That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed...
It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?
You never know what people have gone through to get what they have ...
The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory ,
but they don't know my story...
If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!
We've all got some haters among us!
Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb (if he / she isn't about the right thing) e) Raise your children without both parents being in the home
Haters can't stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be on our side.
How do you handle your undercover haters? You can handle these haters by:
1.. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are *(VERY IMPORTANT!!)
1.. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are *(VERY IMPORTANT!!)
2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not mean having a job.. You can have a job and still be unfulfilled . A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.
3. By remembering what you have is by divine
prerogative and not human manipulation.
Fulfill your dreams!
You only have one life to live...when its your time to leave this earth, you 'want' to be able to say, 'I've lived my life and fulfilled 'my' dreams,... Now I'm ready to go HOME!
When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at me....Look at Who is in charge of me...'
Watch out for Haters...
BUT most of all don't become a HATER!
hater never appreciate what others are doing! only look at the negative side of a person and try to make sth good from sb become bad because they never wanted it to happen good to you! hater never accept the truth! haterz waste their time discussing about otherz and forget doing what they suppose to do! if u hav a natural pychology is ease to identify them! i never be a hater
ReplyDeleteIs this narrative from Maya Angeleu? For real? Mmmh! I have to cast a doubt as it starts with poor English grammar.
ReplyDeleteBut I like the content, it is a must read for many of us in our society.
haterz are alwayz sick for no reason because of their jelous and envy! haterz never suceed because they never look at themselves they are busy judging others! je wewe uko ivyo? usikubali kuwa hater never
ReplyDeleteI am sure mashaka is laughing all way to the bank today. Am sure u have made his day, and intentionally posted this for him to smile.
ReplyDeleteMashaka naona swahiba wako michuzi kakufirahisha kweli, ila kumbuka usenene na wivu dhidi yako hautaisha hadi pale utahapoandika makala yasiyokuwa na maana.kea hiyo kaza buri
watanzania wengi wanaingia katika kundi la waandikwa, hasa walio ngambo.
ReplyDeletewe anon wa feb 23 209 11:29 PM. huyo mtoa ushauri hakutaja mtu ila wewe unakimbilia Mashaka. it seems you are one of the haters. Note that to criticize is not to hate but to point a negative aspect of it.
ReplyDeletethanks for sending msg for all who hate others without any cause. everyone should check him/herself why hate somebody. fikiria unamchukia nani na jiulize kakufanyia nini kibaya. AMINI USIAMINI ASILI YA UCHAWI NI CHUKI. wewe ni mchawi unayemchukia mtu bila sababu
nashukuru sana michuki kwa hii habari. watanzania tumejaa chuki na wivu. hivi ndio sababu maendeleo yetu ni kidogo sana. tunapoteza muda mwingi kufikiria na kusema mabaya juu ya watu wengine badala ya kufikiria namna ya kubadilisha maisha yetu. sijui ni mila zetu au ni umasikini tulionao ndio tunakua na wivu namna hii. tunapenda sana kukashifu hata tukiwa na elimu ndogo au umasikini wa kupindukia. sasa angalia huyo anaesema eti aliyeandika si maya kwasababu english grammar sio nzuri kama vile yeye ana phd ya english kutoka oxford university au havard. wenzetu kutoka nchi za jirani wakiwa na mtu kama masha huwa wanafurahi na kujivunia anayofanya lakini sisi (ambao elimu yetu ni ya kiwango cha chini) ndio tuna mkashifu. TUMUOMBE MUNGU ATUONDOE KWENYE HILI GIZA LA WIVU NA CHUKI.
ReplyDeletesome people behave like our politicians - they dont want to be criticised, they like to be praised all the time. "your are best thing god could offer to tanzanians".
ReplyDeleteA thinker is not a Hater.
Hater is someone who call somebody else a hater because he has been criticised by him/her.
watu wanatoka japan, us, china, uk, australia, tz n more.. hamna mtu anayo time ya kuchukiana humu
ila mtu kama anatoa mada lazima aambiwe ukweli, sasa watu ukweli unawauma ndio maana wanaanza kuita watu ma hater.
ukweli unauma.
hii inauhusu watanzania wengi,hasa walio U.S.A aka dallas.
ReplyDeleteDAH MAYA KWAYU KWELI UMEAMUA KU PASS MSG.. HADI KWA KAKA MICHU? SAFI SANA WANGU.. HABARI ZA UK ANYWAY? WAZIMA HUKO..
ReplyDeleteBIG UP BABY GAL..
NYIE WENYE WIVU KULENI VIWEMBE, MSG SENT..
wewe annon hapo juu uliosema inawahusu watanzania wengi hasa walioko U.S.A unaonesha ni kiasi gani wewe mwenyewe una chuki na majungu kwa wenzako kiasi gani ina maaana wewe watanzania wote walioko U.S.A wanakuhate wewe ni nani kwanza na kwanini kila mtu akuchukia kama sio wewe mwenye matatizo ama kweli kazi ipo! nakushauri ukappimwe akili maana wewe ni mgonjwa wa depression unaelekea kuwa kichaa.pole sana
ReplyDeleteJamani mmezidi kutusema watanzania tulioko UK hususan READING......mbona mmewasahau wabeba maboksi wa USA??.....MTUKOME KABISA.....Bango hilo naona linatulenga sisi kabisaaa......Nahisi kaandika MASHAKA
ReplyDeleteYou must be describing JOHN MASHAKA here - a typical example of a hater!!!
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OLD NEWS !!!!
ReplyDeleteenough said.
UKITAKA KUJUA KAMA CHUKI IPO ANGALIA KAMA TOFAUTI IPO, TOFAUTI YOYOTE.
ReplyDeleteTOFAUTI INAWEZA KUWA YA KISOMO, UMBILE, MALI, DINI, MAVAZI,CHAMA, KABILA, NK.
WE ANON WA February 24, 2009 9:27 AM, hujui kama kuna minorities hata katika tanzania communities abroad?
ReplyDeleteIla mimi nsingejali kwa nini mtu anichukie au anipende. Tupilia mbali, kila mtu ashike hamsini, tafuta fedha, hata wenye roho mbaya watakuthamini hata kinafiki.
NOW U SEE ME ............HATERZ
ReplyDeletewatanzania tuache mambo ya ujinga kama chuki na wivu na tutafute maisha bora kwa bidii. angalia wenzetu wachaga na binamu zao wakikuyu wa kenya bidii zao zote ni kutafuta pesa na maisha bora. hawana uswahili mwingi. sisi wote tukifanya hivyo hata vijiji vyetu vitaendelea kuliko kubaki kwenye umasikini wa kutisha. tusipoteze muda kungojea serikali ifanye kila kitu sisi pia kuna wengine wana vipaji vya kugundua namna ya kujiendeleza. saa nyingine unajiuliza ni kwanini watu wengi wanaishi kwenye nyumba zilizo jengwa kwa kutumia udongo, nyasi na miti lakini hizo nyumba zikiaribika na kuwa na ufa wenye nyumba wanakaa mpaka hizo nyumba zina anguka wakati hawaitaji pesa zozote kuzirepea kwasababu udongo wanautoa nje ya nyumba zao bila gharama zozote. wengine nimeona wanaishi karibu na mto lakini hawawezi kujituma hata watumie hayo maji kujipandia mboga na vyakula kidogo kwa familia zao. lazima tujifunze kutumia muda wetu vizuri. hata nyie mnaokaa mijini ni lazima muende vijijini kwenu wakati wa likizo kuwasaidia ndugu zenu badala ya kupoteza muda kuchukia watu na kuwaonea wivu. kuna vitu vingi vya kufanya. WAKE UP AND DO SOMETHING LIFE IS SHORT DONT WASTE YOUR TIME ON PETTY THINGS.
ReplyDeleteI do not care where the above piece was gotten from, but it speaks for itself and very true to the tanzanian community. It is a shame that a community would primarily focus on bringing others down instead of focusing on things that would proper them or at least live a "decent" life or empower themselves to even learn the English language which still remains a challenge to a vast majority of Tanzanians at home and abroad, if anything.It is a disgrace that some people are so jealous and envious of others that they would even kill. Forgetting that God is the giver of blessings, but the key is to pray for haters, don't hate them, and despite their efforts you will still receive your blessing.pray for haters!!
ReplyDeleteHATERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRZ.Me too sijali kingereza kibaya kizuri,ujumbe kaandika nani all I know kuna mahater wengi WANASOMA HII BLOG NA UJUMBE WAMEUPATA...HAOOOOOOOO AIBU!!!!HATER.
ReplyDeleteI love this 100% Too many haters out there...but u gotta know how to keep rolling. There will always be haters and remember at every level there is a tougher devil to deal with...holla haterz
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WENGINE HUCHUKIA PAKIWA NA USAWA, YAANI HAWATAKI UWE SAWA NAO KI MAFANIKIO (ELIMU, MALI, HADHI, CHEO, N.K.).
ReplyDeleteNDO MAANA WAHENGA WAKASEMA, "HASIDI HANA SABABU".
Anon wa February 25, 2009 11:31 AM, huo msemo uliouweka unafaa utasiriwe kiswahili halafu uwe katika methali zetu.
ReplyDeleteInaweza ikasaidia swali la "kwa nini na yeye?" likaisha.
Kwa ujumla hata ma-haters wame-react humu na kutetea falsafa yao.
ya ujumbe mzuri lakini kuna kitu kimoja ningependa kuwaeleza watanzania kuwa unaweza ukawa una uwezo wa mali na elimu lakini ukakosa busara ukawa unazarau watu kwa kuwa unathani wewe ni msomi au tajiri kwa hali kama hii watu lazima watakuchukia na kwa tafsiri ya wewe muhisika unaweza ukathani ni chuki kwa ajili ya maendeleo yako kumbe la hasha ni kwa ajili ya tabia yako dhidi ya jamii inayokuzunguka la msingi ninalotaka kusema popote kwenye mafanikio lazima kuwe na busara pia kama una elimu basi umwe na hekima na kama una mali basi uwe na heshima kwa watu pia!
ReplyDeleteIngekuwa vizuri sana wanaongangania kuwa mahaters wamejaa ughaibuni wawataje majina yao jamani kweli wamejaa sana huko sie tunajioneaga mashambulizi kwenye mablog embu tajeni majina yao wakomeshwe.
ReplyDeletewamezidi kuchafulia watu kisa wivu na chuki zimewajaa.
alafu wakitukanwa wao huwa wanalaumu sana nyoo!! mschiiiii (nimesonya haters hapo) "mkuki mtamu kwa nguruwe kwenu mchungu?" mschiiiiiiii,wakosaji watupu,
WAKOSAJI is the version of haters.
hii topiki hata ikishuka chini MICHUDHI.ilidushe juu iendelee tuuuuu.
wakati wao umefika wa kuhumbuliwa na tabia yao yakusuhuza makoo yao kwa kutukuna binadamu kisa wenzao wako front page na wao hawapo hata last page .basi watafanya kila iwezekanavo kutukana waliojaliwa kuwa front page.wakifikiri wataharibia waliojaliwa.
MUNGU AKIANDIKA AMEANDIKA.
RUDISHA TOPIC JUU MICHUDHI IKISHUKA CHINI PLS PLS PLLLLLLLS.
Ughaibuni wabongo huwa wana tabia za ki-manzese manzese hivi badala ya kustaarabika. Na huu umanzese ndo sababu kubwa ya ugonvi katika sherehe zao na vyama vyao, kwa sababu husutana. Hata wengine huuwana kabisa na kuchongeana polisi "fulani hana vibali halali au kaoa ndoa bandia." Ni kweli lakini "Hayakuhusu."
ReplyDeleteNdo maana kuna watanzania wachache ambao huwa wanajulikana wapo lakini hata siku moja huwaoni kwenye pati wala mikutano ya umoja kwa sababu ya vijungu vijungu vya chini chini.
Halafu utawaona wanatishia, "kama huji kwenye mikutano tutakususia vilio." Kama vile bongo. Jamaa nao hujibu, "Nimesha-reserve plot makaburini na nimelipa advance kwenye memorial service, watashughulikia kila kitu."
Hebu tuko roma tuishi kama waroma, tuache mambo ya kuulizana nani kala dagaa, nani hana gari la $5000.
Ulietaja wabeba maboxiii wa U.S.A ujakosea alafu wanatukana waliojariwa utafikiri kama wao wamejaliwa zaidi,wangekuwa wamesoma wangebeba maboxi? wanake zao ndo usiseme maneno mengiiiiiii na kusema wenzao wakati wakikaa kimya wakajifikiria wao wakoje jibu watalipata hawafikii wanao watukana na kuwasema.
ReplyDeletewote wana hasira kutwa . hawapendi kusikia furani yuko OK.watammaliza tu! ! !! ! ! !!!!!!!!!!!.
we mwambie michuZi aweke picture ya CYNTHIA,LILI MATAKO,MISS TANZANIA YEYOTE,AU LINDA BEZUND.....UTAONA WATAKAVO KESHA NA MATUSI. sasa watu kama hao wamewakosea nini???????>????????????>>>????????>>>>>>>?
au michuzi tafuta picture ya dada mrembo wowote wa kitanzania au hata kaka handsome wa kitanzania au mtu maharufu tu hata kama sio miss TZ yani sio mwanamke mrembo au weka picture mwanaume mbaya ilimradi tu hawe haombi sukari wala chumvi yani mtu aliekuwa fiti kimaisha
weka picture kabla hii topic haijaisha,alafu mtaelewa mfano wa majina niliotowa hapo juu.
ni haibuuuuuu tupu kwa washambuliaji.
pleas weka picture michuzi Mtajionea na ndio hii topic ya "HATERS ITA MAKE SENCE "
Mifano ipo tunaandikia mate kwanini?
TAFUTA PICTURE YA MTU MAHARUFU.
pia ukiona picture ya mtu inatukanwa sana haimanishi eti kwanini kila mtu anamtukana yeye basi kweli hapendwi au hafai ndo mana anatukanwa.
jibu ni kwajiri wabeba maboxi na haters ni wengi zaidi kuliko waungwana.
NI MIMI HATERS HATER.
WABONGO WABONGO TUU, HATA UKIWAPELEKA KWA MAMA.
ReplyDeleteWENGI WAMEKUJA KUSOMA NA KAMA 90% HIVI WAMESHAACHA MASOMO, KAZI YAO KUZURURA TUU NA KUSAMBAZA FITINA.
haters na hater-lovers mlioko majuu mbona hamjibu mapigo tena?
ReplyDeleteMlikuwa mnasema hamna haters ili mdumu na u-hater wenu, watu waogope kosema kuna ma-haters. Teteeni falsafa yenu au muache u-hater (hatred).
Mnaweza mkatumia hata ile triki ya "anayesema kuna hater yeye ndiye hater mwenewe." Ili tatizo lidumu.
hahaha itika bana kweli hujakua una maneno sana jaribu kuwa mastaarabu
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